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Closing out an Outdated Paradigm of Relationships
The Path of Relational Spirituality and the Call for Healing
If you have been attempting to date the past couple of years and have been struggling, you’re not alone. There are changes coming in the way we perceive and participate in relationships coming. For many of you, you will already see the changes starting to happen and will experience a decreased interest in online dating, working with a matchmaker or other tools of dating that worked in the past.
This week, I witnessed the push back of a group of women on the Instagram wall of a well known male dating coach for women. He suggested that the best way for women to move on from the pain of being with the wrong person is to find someone else who values you more. This is an old way to heal that is very much rooted in a less conscious approach to relationships. If, however, you are like me and have been shifting in your level of consciousness for quite some time, you may be feeling the call to let go of these outdated “expert” opinions of how to manage your dating life. What was, however, most interesting about the post was not in the women’s views that this seemed inappropriate but in his response that because he has worked with women for over 15 years, that women should simply listen to his call for empowerment.
