Having professionalky worked in this field prior to my oersonal heaking journey, I can tell you we were not fair to most men in the advice we gave which centered around self confidence etc...Now, after walking a healing journey that led me to recovering priestess memories, I can say that I see this question differently. The insecurity is an invitation for transformation. The perceived roadblocks is the feminine energy asking for more on the planet at this time. It is not about finding women any longer - she went to Bali already. Struggle at this point is a sign that an internal journey needs to start because she is ahead of you...walk your path and see what happens....