Most narcissists have an anxious attachment style — it’s why they try to control people. At the end of the day, we all have to learn to take care of ourselves and set boundaries. If someone finds love bombing flattering for more than a couple of dates, there is healing to do. You can tell the difference of it’s unhealthy or just a cultural difference by setting a boundary and seeing the response. I speak from personal and professional experience. Our culture likes to give our power away to narcissists and play victim like they have superpowers. The empath is the one with the superpower and these are tests of understanding the energy dynamics, self-love and having good boundaries. Someone who can immediately read energy will not have a problem figuring out what is going on. We all have to study the self first.