This is actually not accurate — the most profound healing one will do will be in the context of an interaction with a karmic soulmate or twinflame . That healing, however, is your responsibility. All negative relationships are simply opportunities for your soul to heal. Other people do not heal us — we heal ourselves by shifting the mindset around why toxic relationships show up and then we get to work on our soul’s development. When we follow a spiritual path in our relationships, it will make sense in the end why it had to unfold the way it did and then the right life partner will appear. But if we continue to look at others as the key to our healing — we give up our power and stay stuck in the merry go round of relationship drama.