This stuff drives me professionally crazy — someone who is truly seductive understands that the process of seduction is a gift to the other person. It is slow and is about giving. It is not about manipulation to get someone to sleep with you in 2.2 seconds. The PUA community has manipulated a valuable social skill that was actually the expertise of women up until the 17th century. It is time to take it back — they clearly have no clue what they are doing. So sorry you experienced this but glad you were open enough to write about it! This guy has other issues and is no PUA.