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Why the Narcissist is an Opening Not the End of Your World
If you have been following me prior to the pandemic, you would know that I have spent a lot of time dealing with narcissists personally and professionally through the years. The world’s acsension process often requires healing the initial perceptions associated with the connection or relationship. This is beyond the psychological categorization. In fact, understanding things psychologically is an initiation onto the path of relational spirituality but not the end destination. There is so much to learn and to master but most of us get stuck with the label and do not do our inner work. Most of us have family members who meet this category — the ones so stuck in their victimization that they will never change (covert narcissism) to the ones that blatantly manipulate for personal gain (the one we think of when we discuss the topic.
Your worldview will change when you spiritually see the real stories of love lost, revenge vowed, and karmic contracts created for your healing. It is a very difficult path to follow but leads to a renewed understanding of what it means to be human and connected to others.
I have posted before that getting angry with narcissists or self invovled people ends up being a waste of time in the long run. Do we need to process our emotions? Yes but to stay stuck in the venting phase to long leads to an…