Wow. They have really brainwashed you guys. We are entering the time of emotionally centered living — emotions are energy. You can manifest your dream date but only if you belive that love is real. If not, then you are selfishly doing your healing work, unconsciously by seeking sexual connections and women are ready to move on from that paradigm. Heal your own insecurity, love your emotions and focus on the other person. Everything else will fall in to place and if it doesn’t, then you are learning lessons about where you need to do your healing work.